Seeker: Amma, why I am always insecure?

Amma: You are insecure because you compare. The
constant expectation, testing of the love and appreciation you
received, comparing yesterday`s love with today and compari-
son between you and the other, are the source of the problem. 
How could you be secure when you seek for security from
people who are in themselves insecure? Security is possible
only when it is shifted to God. Not otherwise.

From the book “Amma – The Divine Mother”